Child Development

Early childhood is reflected to be the most vital period of a human’s lifespan.   This is because the brain and most biological developments in a person take place during this stage. A person’s healthy growth and development during this stage is determined by his childhood environment. An unsuitable childhood environment can have a lasting effect on a person’s life. An aggressive environment more often than not generates aggressiveness in a child’s life. Aggression is a common phenomenon in a child’s life which in uncontrolled levels can lead to person’s self destruction.

Aggression is defined as any form of unintended behavior that results to a physical or a mental injury to a person (Jewett). Aggression can also lead to an unintended destruction of property. It is a common phenomenon among children during their childhood development stage. As astounding as it is, aggression is a key part of young children’s life. It is a common sight to see young kids kicking, snatching, or mildly assaulting each other in schools and other social gatherings. There are various forms of aggression, which are manifested by young children. They include; hostile aggression, instrumental aggression, and relational aggression.  

Aggression in children can be channeled through accidental actions. This is whereby there is no underlying intention to perpetrate an act of aggression. On the other hand, aggression in children can occur through instrumental actions. In this case, a child deliberates performs an act of aggression in pursuit of a goal. Instrumental aggressive actions can cause serious harm to a child or to other persons. This is because some kids may become extremely vigorous why attempting to attain their goals. They may often assault other children in an attempt to satisfy their personal desires. Relational aggression damages the social life of a young kid in school or any other social gathering.

Are children born with aggression or do they learn to become aggressive during their early childhood days? This query has deep rooted philosophical roots. On the other hand, it has key implications in early childhood development stage. In many at times, philosophers have often debated whether the use of intervention to control aggressive behavior in children is effective. In the 20th century, most of the research studies conducted in the site of aggression development have primarily focused on adolescents. There has been an implicit assumption that most aggression behaviors among young people are learnt during this stage. However, this might not always be the case.

Researchers argue that, in order to understand the origins of aggressive behaviors and avert chronic scenarios of aggression, focus of aggression during early childhood is paramount. Parents and guardians to children should try to understand the various forms of aggression affecting their kids. Is the aggression physical, verbal, or an indirect aggression? Identifying the form of aggression affecting a child is the first step towards learning the cause of the aggressive behavior. There are various causes of aggressive behavior in young children.

Frustration is a cause of aggression among many kids in the society (Sarner, 2010). Children can easily get frustrates by both small and bigger issues. For example, a kid can fail to make something work, not make a sibling go away, or not have to access to his parents at all times. The younger a kid is the more possibly it is for a parent to see the frustration in his child than it is possible to notice in a grown up. Such factors make a child become remarkably emotionally sensitive. To a heightened level, a child may end up reacting with a sudden surge of aggression which can be harmful to him or to other kids.   

Sometimes, aggression can be a sign of a different underlying problem. Aggression is considered to be a polymorphic thing (Silva). It is a commonality for numerous psychiatric conditions and issues. Mood swings are such issues, which are also among the primary causes of aggression in developing children. If a kid is bipolar, during his manic stages, he frequently becomes aggressive. Such a kid may appear to lose control, and finally he could become aggressive. During this stage, such a child may become depressed and irritable. The irritability and cantankerousness nature of an affected kid may often make him lash out. The lashing out may be in an attempt to ease the discomfort they could be experiencing.   

Children suffering from cognition problems such as retardation and autism often manifest aggression (Silva). When such kids turn aggressive, this is because they may be trying to deal with anxiety and frustration. Their condition limits their ability to express efficiently. Normally they cannot verbalize their feelings as other kids do. Instead, they might become aggressive. The aggressiveness in such kids may also be a response to impulsivity.

There are several measures that a parent or a teacher can use to reduce aggression in growing children. A child’s physical location tends to increase a kid’s susceptibility to aggressiveness (Tedson). The most efficient method of reducing aggression in young children is to control the nature of the environment surrounding them. Young kids should not be exposed an aggressive environment at a tender age. This is because they can easily pick the aggressive behavior from the stimuli in the environment. Adults should not pick quarrels in front of their young children. This is because children tend to pick the traits of their parents from observation.  

Parents should not teach their kids to use violence in an attempt to solve conflicts in their learning institutions (Fianchetto). For example, if a kid has trouble in school, he should not be advised to fight back to get his way. Instead, he can be taken to a martial arts school where he can be taught defense against violence. The sport can also be able to teach a child to have discipline, and become more controlled. This way, the sport can be an excellent remedy for reducing aggressiveness in a child.

In conclusion, aggression is a key part of child development. It should be handled with care since it can lead to physical and emotional discomfort in a kid. If not well handled, a child can grow to become an aggressive adult. Both parents and teachers should ascertain every kid’s challenges and try to solve them before they escalate to aggression.

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